Have you ever said "yes" when you really meant "no"?
Have you ever felt pushed into saying "yes," because someone has said "it's for your best" and then you felt obligated, thinking "then they must know"?
Have you ever had to say "no" after having said "yes"?
How do you do that? How do you say, "I know what's best for me"? "Thanks for the opportunity, but no"?
Even if it will make you "the first," "famous," "a rock star," a "pioneer," a "ground-breaker," and all you want is to do what's best? All you want to do is be a good person, a listener, a guide, a mom and grandma.
And then what?