Hello There -

Gosh, it's been awhile since I've posted. Busy with Mom, family events, work, life. And I love it this way - mostly. 

Reintroducing myself seems like a good thing to do now, so here I go: 

Ronda Walker - born in Rigby, ID. Graduated from Rigby High School in the late '70's. My family moved to Orem, UT during this same time. I have 6 siblings - 3 brothers, 3 sisters, I'm the oldest. My father owned restaurants in Idaho and managed several in Utah after moving here. 

I married 2 weeks before I turned 19 (my other options were college - nursing, teaching . . . well, that's it, so I married). We lived in Orem, then Brigham City, then Alabama, then back to Utah, where I've lived for the past 26 years, and where I tell some people, I've been trying to leave for the past 26 years. 

I have 2 amazing children, who are the loves of my life. 

18 years ago I graduated with my MA in Folklore from Utah State University. I began college at 31 in AL, finished at 44 in Utah, with an AA from UVU and my BA from BYU. 

Shortly after I graduated from USU (goal 1), I went to Crisfield, MD to do research with the Folklife Field School from the Library of Congress (goal 2 - fall in love with a community doing research). I fell in love with myself, learned about myself, and 3 short weeks later came home, asked for a divorce (after 25 years of marriage), and moved forward (subconsciously goal 3). 

My kids and I moved into my parents home in Orem, and about 4 months later I married Scott Weaver (my rules were - never marry again, marry someone who wasn't from Utah, had life experience, and no children at home - met 2 of those), whose parents had lived across the street from my folks all these years. We've been married 17 years. Scott has 4 children. 

Together we have 20 stunning grandchildren. We love each other's children, and for the most part, they love us. Put these kids and their spouses together in a room, and there's no telling whose is whose. 

I've been involved in the communities I've lived in, particularly as one of the founders of Timpanogos Singer Songwriter Alliance (TSSA) and as Orem City's first Arts Council Director. 

I've had several jobs/careers, meeting amazing people along the way. Yet the 2 which have been my passion are teaching and chaplaining. 

I taught folklore and writing at UVU (an amazing blessing) for almost 20 years, as an adjunct professor. 

I say "almost" because in the fall of 2012 I found a lump in my left breast. I had surgery, chemo, radiation, and then spent 2 years figuring out who I was. That's the genesis for this blog (a former student decided I needed a "handle" and named me "Folklady." Hence the name of this blog. 

In the fall of 2008, during counseling, my therapist asked me what I wanted to do with my life. I told her, "I've always wanted to be a chaplain." 2 weeks later I was in a healthcare chaplain program. 

For several years I taught and chaplain'ed, and then 6 years ago I had the privilege of going full-time, as a Palliative Care chaplain working at Utah Valley Hospital. I absolutely love what I do - working with cancer patients as well as people whose lives are nearing the end or those who have difficult and life-altering diseases. 

I also have a counseling business, where I counsel folks in "transitions" whether health, marriage, religion, region, and these days, post-pandemic stress. 

When I'm not working my butt off, I enjoy exercising, reading, traveling (so excited to use my passport again next month), sewing, cooking, gardening (just re-landscaped this spring), good live music, spending time with our children, and writing - even more now than when I was teaching. I also love deep conversations - talking philosophy, rhetoric, thoughts, not people. 

I'm an introvert, a deep thinker; I'm tough skinned yet hate conflict, and I have little tolerance for overly-emotional or overly-sensitive folks. I'm a "take me as I am" person. 

So there's the short and sweet of me; my blog has been my journal of these past 8.5 years. You can read all my ramblings and some writings from others that touch my heart.