What type of person are you attracted to?
Do your children fit into either category?
Or - is this metaphor too binary? Do we gently touch at sometimes and rain down heavy some days, are we dry on some days, and blustery cold on others?
I've been thinking about this - how I come across to myself, my spouse, my kids, my friends, strangers; as well as in my written language versus my body language or my spoken words.