Baby It's Cold Outside - Presentism -

"Some" of us are critical thinkers, and "Most" of us are reactionary thinkers. This seems applicable this time of year with Christmas music. I can't think of a better song than, "Baby it's Cold Outside," to apply the practice of presentism - imprinting today's ideas and perspectives as we interpret the past. And honestly, I've had enough of this.

So, before I blow an ovary or two, and I will preface this with the statement that I am a feminist; I believe in my voice, and I believe in being respected. As well, I believe one of the worst things we arm-chair critics can do is try to critique a historical event through today's lens.

Hence an amazing analysis of "Baby it's Cold Outside," through the lens of the 1940s when this tune was written. I do think we need to get over ourselves; #metoo is so relevant, and date rape and non-consensual activities abound; I live in an extremely strong patriarchal society - I understand being pushed around and persuaded into doing things I don't want to do; I get the angst of folks who do not like the song and point toward banning it. Yet, come on - let's be critical thinkers. 

And in the meantime, pray tell - isn't "I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus" about marital affairs and childhood trauma? Talk about PTSD! And "Mary Did  You Know" is embarrassing - seriously - some musician has to tell Mary what she is taking on - presentism? Condescending? Perhaps there should be a "New Mother Did You Know" tune to make this song a year long tune for new mothers. I'd be beating down doors to ban that!

Here's my tune for the year -